I do not require anything more than making a friend who is strictly platonic. If at any point you feel that it is headed in a direction of more then you will have to be a little more blunt, I am shy and very concerned about crossing people's bounderies or making them feel uncomfortable.
I am a hardworking man who provides for his children, keeps a roof over my family's head, and treats others the way I want to be treated. As you can see from my profile I am married, and I could not join this site, or speak to others without being honest about that. My wife and I have been married for over 17 years. She is a good woman, a good mother and she is very busy with being those things plus being a student in college and holding a job. We have a pretty good relationship and she is involved in a relationship outside of our marriage. While it's not my favorite activity of hers, she made a connection with someone else that she can't seem to deny. When I confronted her she let me know that she loved me and even desired me at times but that the connection she shared with her friend was a different one. She also told me that she would understand if I felt the need to do the same for myself. A year has passed since I first found out, and I am finally building the courage to get out there and possibly meet someone that I can make a connection with and possibly share some laughs and good conversations with, and possibly more if it should lead that way. She is not the jealous or dramatic type and it isn't something that I would have to hide. I believe that I have the ability to share myself with another woman in a way that lets her know that when she is with me, we are the only 2 people in the world, and if she isn't with me, she knows she is in my thoughts. I am not looking for random connections with many in the intimacy area. I want just one person that I can be friends and maybe even something a little more like special, caring friends. Maybe you and I could start a conversation? I enjoy music, hiking, nature, reading and just hanging out over coffee or an adult beverage. I have the time, the freedom and the interest in getting to know the right woman and treat her like a lady. I am not looking to leave my marriage either, but how nice would it be to spend the spare moments when possible enjoying someone's company and making another person's time enjoyable. I am not about the sex. I am about making a connection, if it turns into more great, if not, no harm done in making a new friend. I am looking for someone who might be in a similar situation, if you are single that is not a problem either as long as you understand the relationship you and I might share is not going to change my marital status. You must understand that even if our connection is deeper than the one I share with my wife; my wife is not the only person that makes up my marriage. I have children, grandchildren and relationships with the family that came with being her husband as she has mine.(In-laws) Please do not take this to mean that I don't respect my wife or that I want to have conversations about all the things that upset me about her. All marriages have problems even the best ones. As I said, sex is not the most important thing, my wife and I are intimate with one another and she does still seem to desire me in the bedroom, the connection she made was not about not desiring me, it happened in a point during our marriage that wasn't so good and we had grown very apart. If this post catches your attention, and you are interested please drop me a line. Even if there is no connection or we are looking for different things there is no harm done in making a new friend. Especially if you are married and don't want to change your situation but would like to have a friend who understands that you may be on the same journey as I am, we all could use a little support and even advice about the feelings we are having and the things that we are trying to figure out about ourselves outside of the marriage that other people just might not understand. I would be more than happy to swap pictures, and think you will find that while I am not a male supermodel, I am not hard on the eyes either. I look forward to hearing from whoever you are and if not, good luck on your search as well. Please put your marital status in the subject line so I know that it is not spam.. I searching men.
I can be your dreams and your fantasy. Available on daytime or evening for a moment of seduction, charm and sensuality.. I have been divorced since 2004. I was in a 9 year realationship that ended about 5 years ago and decided to give this online dating a chance. I am alot of fun to be with and love to laugh and kid around. I don't like the bar scene. I like to cook out and have some beers then maybe cuddle up to a good movie. My job keeps me very busy and I do work alot of hours. Hit me up if you want to know more. Update! For some unknown reason I get zero interest from local women and this puzzles me. I get a ton of play from other states though but I do find it strang that no woman from Oklahoma wants to know me...Just Sayin'. Enter a valid email address to sign up.
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